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In the process, I can notice the habits of contraction that keep me feeling separate from other people: Or is this theory just an attempt to spiritualize an essentially absurd activity, one riddled with consumerism and steeped in the double delusion that dating buddhist is out there somewhere—and that with persistence and a fast Internet connection we can track it down? Week I go out to dinner with a computer programmer who used buddhixt be a Peace Corps volunteer in Nepal.

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