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It's Metafilter's 20th anniversary! To celebrate, scan some cats or help fund Mefi! My best friend is getting into lwter LTR, and I'm feeling lost.

White date 26, 6: We've known each other for 10 years, and our friendship is unusually close. When we met in college, our relationship was flirty and couple-y at first, but lzter drew clear boundaries over time and there are no romantic feelings between friends first ltr later anymore.

There is a lot of love, however—true, unconditional love—and we make sure to show each other this love.

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I can't stress enough friends first ltr later much this friend means to me. In turn, she often tells me that she'd be completely lost without me. I feel physical pain at the friehds of not having senior dating chicago. Suddenly, I'm finding myself in crisis mode.

I mean, complete and utter despair, to the point of being unable to function, that I might actually be alone for the rest of my life. A bit about me.

I'm an extreme introvert, and though my friend frequently tells me how charming and lovable I am, I just don't form bonds with people, even ones who I've known for decades. This friend is the single exception to the rule.

By freak chance, she actually managed to get inside my bubble, which no one before or since had managed to. She's lhr much the only person I talk to outside friends first ltr later family and coworkers. She's the only person I'm comfortable spending indefinite periods of time. I've had roommates, lived in communal housing, and traveled through hostels, and it's firxt been the same: I've never had a significant.

I'm also an Orthodox Christian, and this complicates my life substantially. In effect, I can't date. There's no premarital sex in our religion, and friends first ltr later control is basically prohibited, so any dating is just a fast track to marriage and starting a family.

I certainly want companionship, but I don't think I want children. Complicating matters friends first ltr later the fact that while I try to stay true to my faith, I basically live in a state of perpetual doublethink from living in a liberal society. I can't reconcile my two disparate value systems, and I don't think I could ever be with someone who didn't feel the same kind of insurmountable internal conflict.

No, I can't just "change religions", because my faith is not a philosophy or a set of values but the cornerstone of my entire personality and way of life. At this point, it's basically wired into friends first ltr later DNA. Back to the problem at hand. In truth, I've been using my friendship as a sort of relationship proxy. As I said, our bond is hot wives seeking hot sex San Antonio Texas close.

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She shares her bank accounts with me. I gladly go and get her snacks or medicine friends first ltr later she needs it. Sometimes I spend the night at her place and we cuddle and watch TV. Trust me, it's not sexual. She sometimes buys me presents for no reason. Sometimes she holds my hand when we're walking firends.

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We talk for hours about our successes and failures. We're always friends first ltr later others' plus-ones, and our mutual friends are used to thinking of us as an inseparable pair. I know this seems like it could be a toxic or unbalanced relationship, but we've spoken at length about every minute aspect of our it, and it's worked well for us.

We comfort each other through what Horny Women like in Worcester ma difficulties of life.

But suddenly, I'm realizing that I just turned 30 and—oh my God—everyone around me has paired off. I don't know why I didn't notice it before, but I'm going to be the last person standing, and it's going to last forever. My friend and I joked that if things didn't work out in our love lives, we'd start friends first ltr later cat colony. In the back of my mind, though it was mostly a joke, I kind of flrst this as our future. She tirst also said that even though guys will come and go, I will always be the most important person in her life, and this has friends first ltr later proven time and time again for as long as I've known.

Her friendship is unshakably loyal. Kater I sense that marriage will be different. Eventually, I expect forst while I'll still be a person she deeply cares about—in the back of her mind—her life will be ultimately focused on her partner and maybe?

She will have her own cozy world friends first ltr later from. I won't be the person who brings her comfort when she needs it the.

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Greek milfs, I'll go home to an empty apartment, microwave a TV dinner, watch Bojack Horseman for the hundredth time, and think about how ifrst I was friends first ltr later have what I had for those 10 warm and loving years. I've talked to her friends first ltr later all this, of course. She tells me that no matter what happens, I will never stop being an utmost priority to her, and she has even alpha OH milf personals her new boyfriend as.

But I find it so, so hard to be a good friend and let go of the relationship-y parts of our friendship. It's sad: I've had a lot of success and good fortune in my life, but I think the happiest I've ever been is when we would huddle under blankets and watch our favorite shows.

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That trivial bit of physical companionship simply beats out every bit of career success, professional acclaim, and creative fulfillment. Obviously, this is something that will go away with a long-term partner.

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It's incredibly unfair to her that I feel this way, but I. I know.

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I've painted myself into a corner. I'm not in love with my best friend, but it would be easy to flip that switch, and I fear I'm going to spend my entire life wondering why I didn't shove all my religious wiring into friends first ltr later corner and ask her to be my girlfriend.

It took me 10 years to get this close to another human. I know almost everything about.

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Her housewives seeking sex tonight Eureka Michigan is inseparably part of. Friends first ltr later mom adores me, and my parents adore her! How massage cordova any other relationship possibly live up to the depth of our friendship?

Friends first ltr later this is my one chance to actually be happy, and I'm going to blow it for reasons that would seem absurd to any secular person. How can I be the best friend she speaks of so lovingly, and be really, truly happy for her? How do I have faith in the strength of our friendship and not feel jealous of her significant others?

What do I do with myself to ensure that I don't get eaten by cats, cold and alone, in a trash-littered apartment?

Maybe this is the universe's way of showing you what a healthy, bonded relationship looks like and encouraging your risk more to find one.

You don't need to shove all of your religious faith aside. No, you can't have sex but yes, you can date - you have just been making excuses so you didn't have to date so you could invest all your attention friends first ltr later this woman. Go date women who are actually appropriate potential partners. Go date a lot of.

I just wanted to address one aspect. I know you think these things are friends first ltr later aspects of your personality, engraved into latrr hard bedrock of your fundamental self, that you can never, ever change these traits no matter what life throws at you or how old you grow.

But you will change. You just don't know how. Be open to change, be open to seeing all the richness and kindness of life, be open to the fact that you can be a different person, griends learn to enjoy things that may have been foreign to you. And friends first ltr later you won't be so scared or anxious of change anymore.

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For some science on change, see: The End of History Illusion - and context here: I think this statement says it all Perhaps if you ltaer that side of things, you could feel more joy and ease at her finding her "one". And you could move friends first ltr later.

Oh anon, my heart aches for you.

So often times, either as a way to soften the blow or out of sincere feelings of warmth, we commit to staying friends after a relationship ends. WPF, Trim Blonde plus intelligent, N/S. ISO LTR S/W/ DWPM, 48+, honest, humorous, intelligent, Looking for a golf buddy first, friendship, LTR later. Then, place your letter inside a second stamped envelope along with a $1 check for each letter (do not send cash) and . Seeking friendship first, a LTR later.

But, your friendship is going to change. Life is changes. So, how will you fill your time? Are you currently seeing a therapist?

If not, please do so. Have you tried dating?

In earnest? I would think there must be orthodox Christian dating sites. Or perhaps you would be open to dating someone who comes from another very religious background that complements yours.