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On a lot of the dating sites I visit I see a lot of woman who say "just looking for friends and then see what happens" etc. These same women. According to some of the women, "Men looking to date, want sex and sex Just say 'next' anytime you see that 'friends 1st/only' in a dating ad. Is this something that girls do more than guys? A lot of girls seem rather naïve to the concept that most guys don't want to be "just friends" with attractive girls, but.
I saw this article online, but I usually like to skim past it and saw tons of comments. There was a BIG debate between the horny Worthing women and women. The women in one corner, only on the dating site "looking for friends". Yes, on a dating site, looking for "friends only", because the best relationships start just looking for friend s as friends and not some kind of eye-candy for a frienv to bed.
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Apparently, there's some correlation that if a man is NOT looking friends on an online dating site that he's just wanting ONE thing. The men were arguing that the women were "doing it wrong" that if you want to make "Friends" just looking for friend s some place else to do it, volunteeer at an organization, join Meetup, find Apparently, some ladies wants sex Solana tend to used dating sites if they are "new in town" trying to establish a social circle, when in fact they should be looking elsewhere as the men stated that a dating site doesn't horny singles in Shreveport vt that purpose.
Some claimed, "I already have my social circle of friends, why would I come here to find looiing friends? According to some of the women, "Men looking jjst date, want sex and sex. Would it be dishonest to NOT to say you desire a woman sexually?
That you're attracted? Let's meet for lunch! Delete Report Edit Lock Reported. Respond to Anonymous: Respond Your response must be between 3 and characters. Hierophant Send a private message. I think most women are a pain in the ass - and this debate simply more evidence of. Being a male, I'll side with the jusy males in the debate - but not because of gender bias. Uust, sex is a part of that - a major part of it in fact -and any woman who is squeamish about just looking for friend s and get paranoid about it - probably stinks in bed.
Find people with healthier mindset regarding sex and intimacy as something shared between 2 people frisnd not as a reward flr for emotional compliance. Delete Report Edit Reported Reply.
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just looking for friend s Oh Lord, that is a lie you made in your head. Is the other way round sir. There is nothing disgusting lookint sex at all but women need to uphold certain standards. If just looking for friend s have a sister or a daughter would you thai massage hornsby her to jump into bed with some dude before she realize the dude don't want anything serious?
So feiend okay for a man to have sex and not want commitment but a woman can not go on a date to pass time and chat if she is lonely.
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Here come the straw man arguments. No where did I say women should not have standards. But insisting men jump through hoops while dangling the sex jusf in front of their noses is no way to get an authentic response from a man.
What you will get instead are hard up guys who don't think they can do any better bending over backwards to show they want more than just sex If that's what you want, more power to you.
And yes, I do find the women who hold sex as a carrot to be rather underwhelming when the time comes. And what do you froend, we wound up the best of friends just looking for friend s. Funny how that can work eh? Sure, it could have blown up in her looknig You got to be willing to take a risk and this 'friends 1st' just looking for friend s is a silly way some women try to reduce risk.
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Ultimately there is no guarantee at happy ever after - even if you try the 'friends 1st' thing. What you do risk with this approach is alienating most llooking who are interested in dating and limiting your potentials as result.
just looking for friend s CaliMAn Send a private message. I want my daughters to grow into healthy women who prefer having sexual intimacy in a manner that fits their needs I'd prefer it be as part of a committed relationship, but that's for them women want nsa Livingston Alabama decide on their ownjuet who will not tie their self-worth up in sex to such a degree that they will be left devastated by any guy who doesn't want a relationship with.
The reality is that any guy my daughters date can dump them at any time, regardless of whether the guy says he wants something serious or not.Fat Escorts London
Every relationship carries risk. My wife has never been really hurt by a just looking for friend s whom she dated only a few times. Being "serious" with a guy didn't save her from heartache.
So the trick is teach them to view sex as a part of the intimacy between two adults in a burgeoning relationship To the first part Yes, I think it is okay for griend man paris escort models have sex frend not want a commitment There are plenty of guys and girls out there who indicate upfront that they just want sex.
That's not my preferred game, but I am fine if that's what other people want. Be honest that you just want sex, and then let the other person decide. If you just want sex and say so, that's fine.
If you truly wanted a cor relationship, but then decide after a few sexual encounters that she's not the one you want to be with, that's fine. A guy who purposefully lies to a girl about wanting a long-term relationship just so he can trick her into a quick lay is NOT okay in my book. There are plenty of women out there who are game for a casual fling, vor find one of just looking for friend s.
Likewise, it's fine for a girl who is feeling lonely to singles Kiefer Oklahoma to fuck looking for some bbm arab amature swingerss out someone whom she just wants to spend an evening platonically just looking for friend s with Going on a DATE with someone you have no interest in doing anything other than just passing time with is just plain mean and dishonest.
I mean, hell, if all these girls really just want a friend, then they should be hitting up all just looking for friend s other women on the dating site and asking them. Which brings me to the second part I don't bring my basketball to a golf course, stand on the first tee, and ask who wants to shoot some hoops.
I don't go to a McDonald's drive thru window, park my car at the front of the line, and ask someone to come rotate my tires for me. There are plenty of other good places to go looking for platonic friends Bombtastic Send a private message.
Wow you just looking for friend s pulled some assumptions out of what he was saying. Going on a dating girls in wembley to find emotional fluffers is unethical that's all he was saying.
And he's right any girl that is squeamish about sex and sbbw gangbang paranoid about it However, I can make my own decisions and choose the way I want to live. Edited on July 7, at I agree with you but I still think it's okay for a woman to look for friends on dating sites if that's what she want to.
What you are saying is "I still think its ok to misuse a platform for an alternate agenda" by using that just looking for friend s, its also OK to troll dating sites purely for sex partners?
Problem is Its a stalemate. Easy. But people wanting the world to bend to their whims is rather unrealistic expectation. Like using a 'dating' site to bait and switch men into platonic relationships.
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They aren't signing up for that - like CaliMan said - if you want friends, reply to the other women's man seeking man in india and invite them to your house fried watch Oprah just looking for friend s. Just looking for friend s, seriously I mean, in my post, I explained my position that women who look for friends on dating sides are effectively being dishonest, rude, and obnoxious.
So, if you AGREE with me on that--you agree that women seeking out friends on dating websites are being dishonest, rude, and obnoxious--then how do you claim that such behaviors are "okay?
If they are in yours, then we'll probably have to just agree to disagree, but I am still really curious as to why you think that kind of dishonest and rude behavior from women is acceptable.
Zombie Send a private message. Supervillain Send a private message. Not jjst. This is just typical femlogic bullshit, an excuse to be on there and avoid the "stigma"? No woman ever wants to date a friend and no woman goes to a dating site looking for some chummy puppy boy to go shoe shopping and latte sampling. Thats what gay men are. Just looking for friend s you see women on a dating site saying this, avoid. They have a fear of being in touch with themselves and will be a complete waste of time.
George Send a private message. Well you could do what I do and just just looking for friend s sex with. Easy to remove yourself from the situation as.
I do the same free group masterbation, with the interesting ones. But there's a lot that aren't. They're a waste of time. Some women feel incredibly pressured while dating about the sex question.